Not sure why people keep complaining about the forest but I can finally kill one phantom in a 2vs1 situation.
My best moment is when I invaded a low level character that could kill me with five back stabs. So I took mercy to the poor girl and killed her by punching her to death with my flame hand. I even allowed her to heal then punched her face in. It was pretty funny.
My worst moment is when I kept invading the same two guys several times in a row. They camp out in front of the cat's house. After three or four deaths to them, they sent me some insults. I was pissed at them so the next time I saw them, I sniped them with poison arrows. They didn't leave their spot. A second phantom came an I manage to kill his phantom but my partner died and the host killed me with wrath of god.
Anyways, most people that killed me bowed but some pointed down or shrugged. It's a great PvP training grounds. I even got 150k from a dark wraith the host killed.
Doing all this with a non-elemental balder straight sword for extra fun. I learned a lot from this.