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I got a strange problem at School
First, i'm not the type of person that cares about others opinions, mocks always have been part of my life and I deal with them very easily.
But last week, my friends accidentaly learned something new about me that now its making me very uncomfortable
I was playing on my cellphone on a short time that we have between classes, when my friends came behind and scared the **** outta me. They laughed a lot, and I laughed too. Later, most of them forgot about it, but 2 of them decided to scare me again, and for some reason, it worked, very well. AT the point, I wans't complaining, but now, every 15 minutes they appear and try to scare me. What is worrying me the most, is that even when I know they will do it, I get scared.
Normally I don't mind the mocks and all, but now its actually pissing me off.
First, i'm not the type of person that cares about others opinions, mocks always have been part of my life and I deal with them very easily.
But last week, my friends accidentaly learned something new about me that now its making me very uncomfortable
I was playing on my cellphone on a short time that we have between classes, when my friends came behind and scared the **** outta me. They laughed a lot, and I laughed too. Later, most of them forgot about it, but 2 of them decided to scare me again, and for some reason, it worked, very well. AT the point, I wans't complaining, but now, every 15 minutes they appear and try to scare me. What is worrying me the most, is that even when I know they will do it, I get scared.
Normally I don't mind the mocks and all, but now its actually pissing me off.
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That's a tough one since it seems like the reaction is out of your control to some degree. Knowing human beings I don't recommend letting them know it bugs you since that might motivate them more. Maybe deflect it with some Judo psychology. Off the top of my head, that would be pretend to be part of the joke or turn the tables.
So the first suggestion could mean laugh afterwards (very tough) or give an over the top reaction. Like run in a circle in a fake panic. Either way sends the message "it's with me now, not on me."
Turning the tables could be scaring them (which might turn it into thegroup's "thing") or, when you know it's coming lunge toward them and yell something before they get a chance.
There's also dark souls tactics too. Keep your back to the wall until the backstab fishers get tired
So the first suggestion could mean laugh afterwards (very tough) or give an over the top reaction. Like run in a circle in a fake panic. Either way sends the message "it's with me now, not on me."
Turning the tables could be scaring them (which might turn it into thegroup's "thing") or, when you know it's coming lunge toward them and yell something before they get a chance.
There's also dark souls tactics too. Keep your back to the wall until the backstab fishers get tired
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Get pissed off enough to punch them in the face.
No seriously, just make sure they know you don't like it, if they're friends they can accept that and back off. If not, there's always punching them in the face.
No seriously, just make sure they know you don't like it, if they're friends they can accept that and back off. If not, there's always punching them in the face.
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skarekrow13 wrote:That's a tough one since it seems like the reaction is out of your control to some degree. Knowing human beings I don't recommend letting them know it bugs you since that might motivate them more. Maybe deflect it with some Judo psychology. Off the top of my head, that would be pretend to be part of the joke or turn the tables.
So the first suggestion could mean laugh afterwards (very tough) or give an over the top reaction. Like run in a circle in a fake panic. Either way sends the message "it's with me now, not on me."
Turning the tables could be scaring them (which might turn it into thegroup's "thing") or, when you know it's coming lunge toward them and yell something before they get a chance.
There's also dark souls tactics too. Keep your back to the wall until the backstab fishers get tired
fantastic, awesome review.
Lets check my options
Laugh afterwards. Tried, actually, I do all the time. Thats my personal self non-phisical defense. This isn't working because, its very dificult to find something that actually bothers me in school. They tried everything, screwed up my bag, painted my neck, made me faint, nothing pissed me til now
Fake panic. Good one, I get scared so much that I actually kinda automatic do a fake panic afterwards. Its hard to tell, even by me, if I got scared or if I'm faking. I guess both.
Turning the tables. This seems to be my best shot. I thought about doing this. Problem is, at this time I'm extremely sleepy. Far more sleepy than most of them are. I'm 17 and they're all 15 to 16 so I guess they still have kids energy. Anyway, I simply don't have the reflexes to do this. At least not before lunch.
So I'm guessing my best chance is sit very far from everyone with my back to the wall for a few weeks. No matter the situation, Dark Souls always wins
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densetsushun wrote:Get pissed off enough to punch them in the face.
No seriously, just make sure they know you don't like it, if they're friends they can accept that and back off. If not, there's always punching them in the face.
I'm not into violence unless its on a gym or its necessary, but I'm getting to this point. and I have the surprise "I'm weak" element
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Have you tried just talking to them? Asking them to stop?
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Sorry, not many good options I know. I'll keep my thinking cap on for ya though
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The Letter X wrote:Have you tried just talking to them? Asking them to stop?
hmmm not yet. I'll try that tomorrow. exagerating a bit of course. Like: my doc said if you guys don't stop I'll have a heart attack. They're so dumb that it might works
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From the sound of it that might be the worst.idea. If they're the same ones who have been mocking already, then they're sadly very amused by your discomfort. Letting them know directly how much it bothers you could be fuel on the fire.
I'd only recommend that if they're truly friends who care about you and just can't see that this is a problem
I'd only recommend that if they're truly friends who care about you and just can't see that this is a problem
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Don't forget about the second part of your signature as a last resort.
But seriously, if you do something that blatantly shows that you want them to stop, like telling them to do so or retalìatìng one way or another, they should stop if they are your friends.
But seriously, if you do something that blatantly shows that you want them to stop, like telling them to do so or retalìatìng one way or another, they should stop if they are your friends.
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skarekrow13 wrote:From the sound of it that might be the worst.idea. If they're the same ones who have been mocking already, then they're sadly very amused by your discomfort. Letting them know directly how much it bothers you could be fuel on the fire.
I'd only recommend that if they're truly friends who care about you and just can't see that this is a problem
I do agree with you, but only under the circumstances that they are not his "true" friends. I'd only consider someone a real friend if they stopped in a situation like this. If they didn't, I'd only consider them as an acquaintance or someone who is too immature for me to be around all the time.
Nothing against your friends, Carphil. It's only the way I view things.
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Yes, I thought about that too. I don't know them well enough to simply ask. and they're very immature...
What I'm pissed off is that we're on the danm second year, and in my class you see 15 years old kids who have fun with things like "Who can spits further?", me and my friends, and almost adult people that just sleeps.
Like I said, normally I just laugh and ignore everything, but in this year the class is such a mess that I can barely study.
Sorry for all the complaint. Its just a nice way to not get stressed and share some feelings.
What I'm pissed off is that we're on the danm second year, and in my class you see 15 years old kids who have fun with things like "Who can spits further?", me and my friends, and almost adult people that just sleeps.
Like I said, normally I just laugh and ignore everything, but in this year the class is such a mess that I can barely study.
Sorry for all the complaint. Its just a nice way to not get stressed and share some feelings.
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No reason to be sorry. We're all pretty helpful I like to think and this forum is more like pen pals than internet garbage
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Well, i just looked through every single none off-topic post made this week and the one before to find the uprep i got today, but nothing. Nothing! :x
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Careful Tart going through that many post might make you go hol...oh never mind then.
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I have a great "mess with Tart" game. Once a day look through his history of posts and randomly uprep one. Mwah ha ha haaa!
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skarekrow13 wrote:I have a great "mess with Tart" game. Once a day look through his history of posts and randomly uprep one. Mwah ha ha haaa!
While i like getting uprepped, i think that would actually make me go insane, or at the very least piss me off. :|
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Yeah, that's why I won't actually do it
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But then again... Those upreps... I do like upreps. 
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Too late!
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I think this should be called the new nerco-rep. Or rep and seek.
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Goddamn it! I've been having these hiccups for the last couple of hours. My chest hurts like hell. 
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Yuk. I hate them after three seconds
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