I just hosted in the forest and my experience couldn't be more different. I'm not surprised at all we had different outlooks on who was worse in the forest, Sloth. I had multiple invaders who used chameleon & fog ring to hide and when discovered would run & hide again. That's in addition to the usual 2v1 and using the environment.
One was particularly annoying; he tried to hit me with ranged magic then ran away when I attempted to engage, turned back and cast more magic. We did this dance for a couple of minutes until I really hurt him, he sprinted toward Alvina -- surely disappointed that I had killed all the NPCs. I was not about to chase, though -- he had enough of a head start he was going to be able to heal, anyway. After I got invaded again, he showed up and took pot shots from a distance as I killed the invader and quickly disappeared into the forest again. After I while I decided I'd had enough and summoned a phantom to help me track him down I had yet to kill the trees & mushrooms and wanted to avoid a comprimising situation if someone else invaded.
A lot of times I'll just log out if someone runs away. But, this guy was really annoying and honestly not a threat (I'm sure my SL was
way higher than his) and I was just determined to kill this little gnat. The phantom and I killed 3, 4, 5... invaders (sorry for the inadvertent ganking -- we did get some interesting 2v2, though!) and still the same story, snipe, run, disappear. The reason I was in the forest to test out a new setup and play style, but swapped out the heavy stuff for my normal fast roll gear so I could chase him down if I got the chance.
Finally my phantom dies to a guy who spawned at the boss gate & appeared to be one of the out to lunch farmers, but came to life when we approached the bridge spamming soul spear. Ok, were ganking (not intentionally for my part), but he's just trying to farm without doing anything if possible or catching people off guard when they can't dodge. I waited to see if my phantom would reset. I think I killed off another invader or two & finally summoned another. The whole time I was unable to summon a 3rd (I would have split up in search & destroy mission), but I'm pretty sure I had 3 invaders at least once.
After close to an hour and a half, he gets a little too close & I give chase from between the steps near the bonfire & the spawn point in the middle of the trees. He runs to and across the bridge, to the now dead mushroom parents (nice try -- I took them out after the last guy used them to waste humanity & get backstabbed more before he died*), starts running around through trees and finally is starting to pull away from me. I follow him of a ledge when I'm sure I won't give him a double death and he dies out of nowhere... ???? When I reorient my camera, I see 32 next to his body! A fall that didn't hurt me killed him because he never healed this whole frickin' time! He must have been a very stubborn low-level player with no humanity.
I didn't even mention the annoying lagstab fishers who I could deal with if the didn't also use front stabs. And I seem to get taunted a lot more. Like the
I got one time when I finished off a second guy in what was a 2v1 right after getting invaded again and got 1-shot BSed before I could heal. No question the gankers do it more, but I expect it from them. I don't know why someone who invades and is gifted someone else's sloppy seconds would taunt.
*I wouldn't gloat so much over a 2v1, but he ran and my phantom couldn't keep up so that kill was actually a 1v1+mushroom parents