by Federally Sun May 13, 2012 6:56 pm
You don't have to kill the gravelord that infected you, you just have to kill any gravelord. When a gravelord uses an eye of death it inflicts BPs on 3 people in his player group but it shows his sign to the whole player group and leaves him open to DarkWraith/Moon invasions. If anyone invades him and kills him it removes BPs from everyone. If you have BPs and invade any gravelord who's sign you see you'll get rid of your BPs.
Now most gravelords want to be invaded, so they usually hang out in well populated areas while gravelording. I stand around where ever I see lots of summon signs, usually near bonfires, so my sign is clearly visible.
Also note, you risk nothing by invading a gravelord so whenever you see a gravelord's sign click it to invade. If you win you get souls, a humanity and help out your player group but if you loose you just go back to your bonfire.
Lastly, its rumored around that there is a possible glitch that causes you to be permanently gravelorded if you quit before cleasing your BPs. It's not confirmed tho because its super hard to test.