reim0027 wrote:When I'm a Darkwraith, I don't bow, typically. But, I do let them bow. Sure, attacking someone who is bowing is legit, but it only makes you look like a jerk. If you act like a jackwagon, then expect people to tell you that.
I love darkwraithing, but bows are things I only give when I've truly enjoyed the experience, most typically after winning a tough duel (I'd bow after losing a close but exciting match also, but corpses have trouble doing that). I think it's much better as a post-match gesture than a pre-match pretense, both because it carries less risk and somewhat ironically, still carries more actual meaning IMO.
I have no problems with darkwraiths swatting people who bow to them if they invade (or backstabbing), but I don't like doing it. If I wanted an easy advantage I'd gank. That's not as fun for me. I like invading up, killing people 2x my level, beating gankers, etc. IMO DS benefits from the existence of gankers; far too many people aren't cut out for true 1v1 PvP and aren't willing to invest the time to make it so. There are ways to nearly guarantee true 1v1 PvP, such as picking unusual locations and using RSS in them with people you know, but that's only a small part of the souls experience.
My 1st PvP area, and still by far my favorite, is the much-maligned forest
. You can get everything there, and you get it with virtually no expectation coming in. Host gifts, 3 man ganks, naked punching matches at random, bow only duels, people swapping to the same weapon you have, giantdads, themed ganks with ridiculous builds (both "tryhard" and just sillyness like 2x smough with dual punching gloves), there's just so much variety, and if in FH the ability to set up the otherwise extremely rare 2v2 opportunity...and the invaders actually can't damage each other!
Unfortunately, it makes it hard to get hate mail. I really can't believe I don't get more hate mail for staggerstabbing people and killing them outright. Of all the things so many people consider "cheap", I've literally never been called out for staggerstabbing someone with a hammer. Surely SOMEONE dislikes that tactic :p?